WOW.
Talk about a whirlwind tour! Are you renting a vehicle and driving all of these places? I don't see any gaps in the schedule for travel times, which in several cases, could be all or part of a day (or more!)...
Judy and I will be out of town on business when you're in our area (Los Angeles county, nearest to Anaheim on your itinerary).
There IS a driving run on Sunday October 16 through some incredible twisty mountain roads from LA up to Lake Arrowhead in the San Bernadino Mountains being put on by our local club, SCMM (Southern California MINI Maniacs). If you're in the southern part of the Sequias on the 15th, you could possibly hook up with this run on your way to Anaheim.
If you're interested, I'll try to get you more info, and/or someone else from the club to interface with.
Your honeymoon plans sound really interesting, if not overly ambitious! When will you find time to... er, never mind - none of my business!
_Dave_
PS: Best wishes to the new couple!