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Basically, never ever use a sponge on the body. Use a microfibre or lambswool wash mitt.
Buy a second bucket and have one with wash solution and one with plain water. Frequently rinse the mitt in the plain water before reapplying the wash solution to minimise any grit and dirt scratching and swirling your car.
Then you're ready to clay, polish, seal, wax and spit shine