The ƒ-number is an expression of how wide open the aperture of the lens is. I
think an aperture of 1.0 means the iris is completely open, while ƒ/16 is very small. I forget the progression, but each higher number represents a halving of the open area of the iris. Aperture and shutter speed are directly linked in that they control how much light reaches the sensor. At a given aperture/shutter speed pair, if you open the aperture one stop you send more light to the sensor. If instead you slow the shutter speed, you *also* send more light to the sensor. It's a balancing act. The other thing you impact with the aperture is the depth of field. For example, this picture of Josh's duck was taken with the aperture wide open:

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Note how the duck (which is what the camera's focussed on) is sharp, but the background is blurry. If instead I'd taken the shot with the aperture at ƒ/16, the background would also be sharp. But to expose the scene properly you'd also have to decrease the shutter speed.