| autoglym is a good place to start out, when you start valeting/detailing more expensive cars or more seriously i use more expensive and specialist products such as zymol..in my eyes the kings of the detailing world.
first of all i think it needs to be made clear to princess that the process described above, well sort of, is a valet. this only needs to be done meybe twice a year.
if im doing this this is what i would do
snowfoam
wheels..with alloy wheel cleaner
two bucket method
dry - using microfibres
clay
polish
wax
this is the basics, then for me i add extra details
window clean/seal
Bumper care on plastic trim and rubbers
wheel sealant
exhaust cleaner (autosol)
all of this is for the outside | 
