Any woman who manages to fill up an SUV with "family" will NEED a second SUV to lug around her fat @ss. You could point that out to her but I's got the feelin' you's a lost cause. Has she already started with the "We's"? As in "WE were going to get a small little place in the city but WE just thought it would be more practical for US to get a bigger place in the suburbs and it really is for the best because WE so hate the harried pace of the city and you know WE sooo don't think it's the proper environment for children. Oh yes, WE are planning to have loads of kids, WE just adore large families, WE think the foundation of a strong relationship is the way WE agree on everything..." Sorry but I for the sake of all that's right demand your b@lls back from that woman and get some perspective!