You'll have ordered the anthracite trim. It is probably a better match to the gold than the brilliant silver which is £100 option.
The main bits in the door are matching. Have a look at this pic
http://www.mini2.com/gallery/persona...a_s9lp-429.jpg
I got silver as I thought it would match my silver car. Don't think silver would go with gold though. Anthracite is still popular and is said to hold up a bit better than some of the silver bits.