[Shamster]

I think that there must be some people who think the Charity Ball event is not for them as they won't know anyone there and don't want to be 'on their own'.

Let me be the first to say that there is no reason to feel like that - we were all at that point at some time when we joined M2. Anyone remember their first run and the trepidation that it might have caused? Did you think "Are these people I'm meeting all going to be internet weirdos/geeks?"

All those who have plucked up the courage to come to runs and previous M2 events will, I'm sure confirm that they have had fun days and made some great new friends as a result.

So all I ask is that if you are one of those who are thinking you may not 'fit in' you should re-consider. If you want we will even put first-timers on the same table so that everyone has at least one other thing in common.

So don't just read this and then move on. Come and join a great, fun, group of people and lose your M2 event virginity.

Tickets still available - and to those who are already confirmed - let's encourage them.

Remember, the MINI community spirit and camaraderie doesn't just stop at waving and flashing and helping each other on internet forums.

[Harpo]

Yes, the Ball is a great way to meet like-minded people, and is a superb event in its own right.

So come and join us, and participate in a truly memorable evening.

And if you're still unsure, ask questions in this thread - there will always be somebody to provide an answer.

See you on the 17th May then.

[RVW]

Yes come on down guys & gals you will enjoy it
There is no better way to get to know your fellow MINI2ers




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[Hyper Active]

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

[Mini_Flower]

Quote: Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

Are you me?

(Assuming you don't have a partner in the first place) you might meet somewhere there)

Apart from the fact I am actually quite shy and still plucking up the courage to go to a local meet (pathetic at age I know) the old boyfriend is finally having his next spine operation next week so all things are pretty much cancelled for the next 6 weeks. Then subject to that we are going to starting actually doing fun stuff again - roll on the boozy cruise from Helsinki to Stockholm with a bunch of thirsty Finnish colleagues - yay.

However, to the original post - I think that is really a lovely thing to write up for the shy ones amongst us. Deep down we all know that everyone is friendly and helpful. Nice one. xx

[Gravity]

Quote: Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

If you go, you will have fun I was really nervous about meeting up with a group of random people the first time I met people from M2, but I'm glad I did - I count those people as some of my closest friends and one a very very special friend indeed Everyone's friendly, I promise!

[Ali @ Woodys]

Quote: Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

NOOOOOO dont feel that way...
last year i was very nervous as it was my first Ball..... but do you know we had the best time and its a great way to put faces to names
you dont have to davce but you will be the atmosphere is fab!!! get your ticket bought!!

[bubblegoose]

Quote: Originally Posted by Ali @ Woodys (original)

NOOOOOO dont feel that way...
last year i was very nervous as it was my first Ball..... but do you know we had the best time and its a great way to put faces to names
you dont have to davce but you will be the atmosphere is fab!!! get your ticket bought!!

i concur!

it will be my 3rd ball & I have had a blast at every single one!

to all the shy ones out there.... come on down, have a few drinks, have a little dance & enjoy it with other like minded folk who are the friendliest bunch of people I know

Can't wait now!!

[minicabrio]

The ball is the 'must do' event of the year for sure

Also, to the men who don't have their own Dinner Jacket, and don't want to buy, Moss Bros do a very good hire service, and they're all nice suits

Don't be shy folks....

[aussie11]

I am coming will be the first time and really looking forward to it, only met a few people from Mini2 before at the Oxford plant and the TopGear run

[dakini]

Quote: Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

Quote: Originally Posted by Mini_Flower (original)

Are you me?

(Assuming you don't have a partner in the first place) you might meet somewhere there)

Apart from the fact I am actually quite shy and still plucking up the courage to go to a local meet (pathetic at age I know) the old boyfriend is finally having his next spine operation next week so all things are pretty much cancelled for the next 6 weeks. Then subject to that we are going to starting actually doing fun stuff again - roll on the boozy cruise from Helsinki to Stockholm with a bunch of thirsty Finnish colleagues - yay.

However, to the original post - I think that is really a lovely thing to write up for the shy ones amongst us. Deep down we all know that everyone is friendly and helpful. Nice one. xx

well, i'm another quite-shy geeky type, and I'm going!

i honestly don't know what i'm getting into, but i have to say that all the mini2 people i've met over here in the last month and a half have been superb people and i'm looking forward to spending a drink-filled weekend with them even if i only know them by their usernames right now!

so yes, folks, if you're thinking you're too new to come, please come anyway!

[Gemini4321]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful

Hyper I'm shy too, I know I have a partner now. We have been to the last 2 Balls and they were brillant even Manchester where it snowed, no taxi's from the resturant in town. You dont have to dance not everyone does.

I know its not the same but you go to the Herts meets and some of those people will be at the ball so its not as if you wont know anyone.

If I hadn't been brave 8 years ago (Life begins at 40 ) when I first went on line I never would have meet my hubby, we meet through a chat room. We use to have regular meets and have made lots of great friends. Before then I had been on my own with 2 kids for 13 years.


Sue

[supa-dupa-cooper]

Im quite a shy person (honest ) and it took a lot to go to the first MINI Run back in May 06, but I did it and it was great Just to think ive known Chris & Jax for 2 years OMG! Lost count of how many new people ive met since then and all such lovely people (bar the one retard! ) and ive made so many fantastic friends!! (you all rock guys )

Unfortunatly I cant go to the ball this year, as ive already commited to doing the L2B But what I will say is, dont be shy folks, go along, lets face it, everyone going has at least one thing in common!! You'll get to meet so many great people and make lots of new friends

Do it, do it, do it

[Harpo]

Quote: Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

Welcome to 'The Rubbish Dancers Club' Andrew - we have lots of members going to the Ball.

Anybody out there prepared to give members of the RDC an hours tuition?

[SoggyCornFlakes]

Quote: Originally Posted by Hyper Active (original)

I embarrassed to say that events like this do fill me with dread . What with having to dress up to the nines, being shy, being quite a rubbish dancer and not having a partner to go with . It all sounds rather stressful .

skip the dancing and play the casino all night


Really Andrew - you'd have a great time, the run in hte day, bbq, a few beers and great meal - and if you dont want to wear the dickie bow just put on a jacket and you'll be fine Just think - all the folks you had pizza with at Aylesbury after Chilterns will be there - not so scary now ....... or is it

Drop me a pm if you like and I reckon you can get along

[SoggyCornFlakes]

Quote: Originally Posted by Mini_Flower (original)

Are you me?

(Assuming you don't have a partner in the first place) you might meet somewhere there)

Apart from the fact I am actually quite shy and still plucking up the courage to go to a local meet (pathetic at age I know) the old boyfriend is finally having his next spine operation next week so all things are pretty much cancelled for the next 6 weeks. Then subject to that we are going to starting actually doing fun stuff again - roll on the boozy cruise from Helsinki to Stockholm with a bunch of thirsty Finnish colleagues - yay.

However, to the original post - I think that is really a lovely thing to write up for the shy ones amongst us. Deep down we all know that everyone is friendly and helpful. Nice one. xx

Look out for next year and get yourself along

And good luck for hte b/f with his op

[Jordan210]

I'm a shy one, As most people know... But The ball is such a grate time, As you get to spend time with people you may have met, Or just spoke to, or just seen post on here.

Also as one of the youngest active members it some times feel quite never recking to talk to people you have no idea who the are, But once you find out there user name and you spoke to them before its so easy and every one gets on so so well

Its possibly one of the best events iv ever been too. The Friday night is also a great night, As if your a bit worried about meeting tons of new people. Its a heads up of who is who

Evey one who is unshore about going should just take the plunge it is well worth it, And you will have one of the best times of your life

[Lorri]

I'm shy too but you have to make the effort, and in my experience it's always been worth it
The Charity Ball is a great night with fantastic people, and boy do we have FUN Yes we get dressed up, yes it's different to all the other events, but it's no less friendly or fun. It's something special to look forward to, many of us make a whole weekend of it, and it's certainly memorable. I get to meet new people every time and it'd be brilliant to meet more of you. Go on, make the effort... you won't regret it

[popey]

Id love to be there BUT..... Ive got to work

(hope the PA system is sorted)