glad i can help...
also the other problem with a 225 section tyre is that even though i have a 35 profile, the 35 profile will be larger on a 225 rather than a 215 (as the (35) profile is the % of the section of the tyre, so the wider the tyre the larger the profile. (i hope that makes sence

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At the moment if i have 2 adults in the back the rear tyres sometimes rub, if i go over a largish bump! which i can imagine would happen more often with 225's.
If you want to lower it then play safe and go with 215's ( also the handling will blow you away!!!!

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as for your questions, at the moment i dont have any close up pics of my wheels, but i'll take some either tonight or tomorrow for you.
and as for the suspension, im getting the same setup on mine as is used on the JC challenge cars, a full Spax kit, although its not cheap at £964.00. but this is the only suspension upgrade i'd look at because: 1, the setup is fully adjustable, 2, the work is carried out by JC and 3, any work that JC do is aproved by BMW and therefore will not effect your warrenty....
Hope this helps
Lee.