So this is bolt you have to be talking about.
Here:
With a dremel
And a vice I would just shape out a new one. The vibrations in the suspension system itself or acostics as they call it these days may play a part in the shape of that washer. And with all too many mini cooper first gen (2001-2008)having all steel control arms that tend to bend and brake. I would probably replace it with something of equal value instead of putting a round washer just from the recorded experiences mini cooper owners have had with snapping rear suspension components.
Here:

With a dremel

And a vice I would just shape out a new one. The vibrations in the suspension system itself or acostics as they call it these days may play a part in the shape of that washer. And with all too many mini cooper first gen (2001-2008)having all steel control arms that tend to bend and brake. I would probably replace it with something of equal value instead of putting a round washer just from the recorded experiences mini cooper owners have had with snapping rear suspension components.