I take it this is an N14 or N18 engine. I noticed you haven't removed the intake camshaft. That (and the eccentric shaft and stands) will need to be removed before you go to the machine shop. Remove the bearing bracket too.
For the sake of orientation with the head flipped over for your picture, cylinder 1 is on the right hand side; cylinder 4 is on the far left side. Notice how the cylinder 1 intake valves are much cleaner than the rest. Now look at cylinders 3 & 4; I would suspect the head gasket was leaking and oil was entering the combustion chamber. You also have evidence of a sealing problem between cylinder 2 & 3. That would also explain the oil consumption. Is there any chance you performed a lead-down test before you removed the head?
When you take the head to the machine shop, ask them if the head is warped. I'll bet you lunch it is. The longitudinal straightness limit is .003". The lateral limit is .001"
Make sure you tell the machine shop that the valve seats tend to fall out of these cylinder heads ... especially after machine work. The shop can ping the valve seats to keep them from falling out. There's nothing worse than putting your refurbished head back on the block only to have one of the valve seats drop out shortly after you've reassembled the engine. It's happened to me.
When the shop planes the head, ask them how much they took off. You may have to go with the thicker .120" head gasket. The stock gasket is .090"
Funny, I just posted a head reassembly video last night.
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